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설날 & 추석 — Holiday Survival

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Korean holiday vocabulary
설날Lunar New Year
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추석Korean Thanksgiving (harvest festival)
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세뱃돈New Year's money (given to children)
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차례Ancestral rites/ceremony
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성묘Visiting ancestors' graves
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한복Traditional Korean clothing
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송편Rice cakes (추석)
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떡국Rice cake soup (설날 — eating it = aging one year)
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Textbook새해 복 많이 받으세요sae-hae bok man-i bat-eu-se-yoPlease receive lots of new year blessings
Real새해 복 많이 받으세요~ / 올해도 잘 부탁드립니다sae-hae bok man-i bat-eu-se-yo~ / ol-hae-do jal bu-tak-deu-rip-ni-daHappy New Year~ / Looking forward to this year too🏷️ Daily conversation
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새해 복 많이 받으세요 is one of the rare textbook phrases that IS the real version. Everyone says it. Add 건강하세요 (stay healthy) for elders — health wishes hit different in Korean culture.
Holiday questions you WILL be asked
결혼은 언제 할 거야?When are you getting married?
남자/여자친구 있어?Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
취직은 했어?Did you get a job?
월급이 얼마야?How much do you earn?
아이는 언제?When are you having kids?
살 좀 쪘다/빠졌다You gained/lost weight
Korean holidays = interrogation by relatives. These questions are considered NORMAL and caring, not rude. The correct response: smile, give a vague answer, and redirect. 하하 네 잘 되면요~ (haha yes, if things go well~) covers everything.
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Holiday survival hack: volunteer to help in the kitchen. It's the safest zone — you look helpful and avoid the living room interrogation. 제가 도와드릴게요 (let me help) is your shield. Also: bring a gift. Fruit sets (과일 세트), beef (한우), or health supplements (홍삼) are the holy trinity of Korean holiday gifts.

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